How to survive an argument, especially when she’s wrong — You Apologize!
Hint: Her being wrong has nothing to do with it
So you think you give good apology
You have a degree in psychology?
Even practiced apology experts
Want some redos with specific excerpts
So whether you’re the one wooing
Or you’re on the receiving end
The one thing you must stop doing
If you’re hoping to keep a friend …
“BUT” … “I’m sorry, but” … “You’re right, but”
There are so many ways to crash
BUT is a bona fide short cut
To a head with a nasty gash
Try “I’m sorry you feel that way”
Like you just want to get along
Oops — forgot one important thing
Acknowledging what you did wrong
And don’t overdo your remorse
You’re probably talking too much
If you feel like you’re getting hoarse
Her eye rolls mean you’re out of touch
Here’s one — don’t get caught placing blame
Some have tried, “Shouldn’t fault be shared?”
Ask forgiveness, don’t play that game
Those others? Their lives were not spared!
Lastly, offer to make amends
Tell her this time you’ve really changed
The repeat offender offends
And perhaps wants to be estranged.
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