Living the Dream, and Waking Up Alone
Finding a Digital Nomad Community: Face to Face
The sun peeks through my curtains casting its warm glow upon my face. I roll to one side for a quick glance at the clock — 7:39 am. Not an unreasonable time to wake up, but I figure I can afford a few more minutes of rest and so my eyes flutter closed once again.
By the time 8:00 rolls around, I’ve allowed myself to wake up slowly, stretching and working out the kinks of sleep along the way. This month, I’m waking up in a beautiful airy apartment on the island of Fuerteventura, Spain. My roommate sleeps a bit later than I do, so I tiptoe past her door on my way to the kitchen to make my coffee.
Regardless of where in the world I am, the ritual of waking with the sun sticks with me. I’ve always considered myself a morning person — I love the feeling of the cool air at that time of day, the quietude, the peace.
With coffee in progress, I turn to my makeshift workstation on the dining room table and open my laptop. There will be no commute on this particular morning; instead, I will work from this spot right here, enjoying my breakfast while catching up on world news before diving into a task list for the day that would be eight miles long if not for the gentle encouragement from my co-living companion to prioritize, for god’s sake. She has become my accountability partner, something which has been particularly tricky to find when your “community” exists primarily online.
In fact, the community aspect was what first drew me into the co-living and co-working realm. One of the greatest challenges I’ve faced over the last few years of travel and location independence is a distinct lack of a support system. And not because my friends and family weren’t supportive of my digital nomad lifestyle — quite the opposite, in fact.
The problem was, the support friends and family were able to offer me was typically limited; words like “Keep living the dream!” and “You’re an inspiration!” really only get you so far. But where would I turn when I needed real business advice? When I needed feedback on new ideas and projects? When I needed someone to regularly check in with me and hold me accountable for the promises I made to myself?
When I needed someone to just get me?
The answer, I finally learned, was other digital nomads. And not just through Facebook groups or Reddit threads. It had to be face-to-face.
This was a lesson I learned many times over before actually putting it into practice. I understood the importance of networking and made sure to interact with my travel blogging peers whenever possible. It wasn’t until this summer, however, that I realized what I was missing out on by not participating more actively in digital nomad communities as well.
And so, when I stumbled upon the concept of co-living while researching for my recently released eBook on location independence, it struck me as an experience I simply had to have. Living with others just like me? Networking, collaborating, pushing our businesses forward every day, and socializing in our free time?
These days, you’ll find me at Hub Fuerteventura in the small town of Corralejo, reaping the benefits of this relatively new style of traveling in a wide variety of ways.
I have 24/7 access to a co-working space where I can enjoy banter with “co-workers,” collaborate on projects and exchange ideas, and make plans for after hours. I have a room all to myself in a fully-furnished apartment. I have the luxury of being in a new and exciting destination, with something unfamiliar to discover every single day.
The decision to come here for this unique experience is one of the best I’ve made in recent months. To me, it reflects the heightened level of self-awareness that I’ve developed throughout this process.
I’m very open about the fact that I am an introvert, and working alone suits me just fine most of the time. But what I’ve learned more recently is that without so much as the option of socializing and collaborating, my emotional well-being quickly begins to suffer.
And the beginning of my journey toward becoming a digital nomad was what some might call “cringe-worthy.” I had no business sense. No marketing skills. No financial acumen. In fact, I didn’t even know where to look for this knowledge; I had no role models — or perhaps more accurately, I had the wrong ones.
I was utterly lost, and it showed. I floundered for a long time trying to earn enough money each month to sustain my travels. I lived in hostels, partied too much, hustled too little. I was eating into my savings and work wasn’t consistent.
Eventually, and only after a great deal of self-reflection, I was able to see my mistakes and modify my behavior accordingly.
This brought about my first small taste of success; while solo traveling through Eastern Europe, a flood of new clients hired me to manage their Pinterest accounts. Arriving at that point was a slow, laborious, intentional process, which I wrote about in full in this blog post.
But up until that point, not a day went by that I didn’t feel a wave of panic wash over me. There were many, many moments that I thought about throwing in the towel. These days, I thank my lucky stars that I never did.
It’s incredible how much creative energy even a little bit of financial stability can unlock. Once my mind was free from the worry of “How will I feed myself tomorrow?” great things began happening. I found the role models I’d been searching for all that time. I saw opportunities where I never had before. I found the time and energy to create my first digital product. I saw so much potential for my future, and I began to manifest positive changes in my life and my business.
That feeling of having complete autonomy over my work, my business, and ultimately my happiness is something that no amount of money could ever buy.
Fast-forward again to present day Fuerteventura, and the challenges and rewards continue.
The challenges, they make themselves known. Make their presence felt. The rewards, on the other hand, are often subtle. Sometimes, the greatest challenge is simply recognizing the rewards, however small.
For me, every day of this lifestyle is worth celebrating, and that is truly my greatest reward.
Leah Davis is the founding editor of the travel and lifestyle design blog The Sweetest Way and author of the eBook Take Your Life Back: Finding Freedom Through Location Independence. Her love of travel and aversion to the corporate grind led her on her own journey to location independence, and she now spends her days exploring the globe on her own terms while encouraging others to find their sweetest way to live. Follow her journey in real time on Facebook and Instagram.
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