Often times what we see online, the successes in particular, are the only things we see. The highlights, so to speak.
What we don’t see are the struggles, the stress, the failures and all other battles the person we might be envying right know had to face. So we think, ”It was so easy for her. Look at her go! I’m having so much difficulties making this work. I TRULY must suck!”
No, you don’t. We all do. In one way or another. What seems to filter out the true successes are the people who are willing to play the long game: Those who focus on their vision and follow through. No matter what obstacles come in their way. Those with grit and yes indeed, those who focus on their own shit.
Well said Justin. Could not agree more!