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Lola Phoenix
Aug 19, 2019 · 6 min read

Medium doesn’t make it easy to find all of the columns and podcast episodes available for Non-Monogamy Help, so here it is. An index of all of the columns and podcast episodes, and other articles about polyamory by Lola Phoenix, sorted into subject matter.



Ready for polyamory

You’ve decided to make the plunge but you’re not quite sure where to start or you’re hitting some speed bumps along the way. These are good for people ready for and trying out polyamory.


Reaching out to and finding others

How do you find other people who are polyamorous or tell a friend or someone you like that you’re polyamorous. These are all about reaching out and finding others.






Dating friends

Are friends of partners off limits? How do you navigate fears around your partner dating your friends? These are the entries about dating friends.



Switching, closing and abuse

These entries are for those trying to figure out the right time to break up, regretting opening or wanting to close the relationship and also for those who may be in dangerous situations.



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Non-monogamy Help

Advice for people in non-monogamous relationships written by Lola Phoenix with consult from a 10 year experienced therapist. Submit your question to nonmonogamyhelp@gmail.com.

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Lola is a non-binary (pronoun: they) queer future best selling sci-fi/fantasy novelist. All writing projects: http://about.me/lolaphoenix

Non-monogamy Help

Advice for people in non-monogamous relationships written by Lola Phoenix with consult from a 10 year experienced therapist. Submit your question to nonmonogamyhelp@gmail.com.

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