In my 50’s I will:
- Trust myself without reservation. The cost of rumination is too high. My instincts are excellent and even when I make a misstep I’ve proven over and over I know how to course-correct.
- Wear beautiful things. Or not. It was for me the whole time.
- Think of romance as a value-added, not central to my happiness. The endless searching took energy away from more valuable pursuits.
- Quit explaining my value to others (other than my customers). Maybe it’s someone else’s job to see, and not mine to make them…