Life & Relationships

Thank You to the 2 Men that Taught Me How Not to Love Myself

I thought I would never fall into these emotional traps. But I did, because self-love is not straightforward.

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I was not doing well for some time.




Opinion pieces and personal essays by Jessica Bianchi. Life through the eyes of a first-generation immigrant from China to Italy. A millennial navigating a complex world.

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Jessica Bianchi

Jessica Bianchi

A millennial seeking to make an impact to make the world a better place. I believe in the power of kindness and love. Based in London, UK.

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