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My Two Years Without Sex

8 min readApr 14, 2025

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“I haven’t had sex in two years”, I told my friend as he finished his story on his latest conquest, a cute Pakistani girl he met in a former Soviet Republic.

“Dude, you’re pushing it. You’re at the peak now. And you look good. Go out, for crying out loud.”

Sexlessness among twenty-somethings has been growing since the 1980s.

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Many reasons have been proposed for it and among these, Alice Evans highlighted that the sex and couple recession is, firstly, a friendship recession.

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People are spending more time alone which results in fewer chances for lucky encounters. Sex is an organic phenomenon. When young males and females mix, “things” inevitably happen. And when they don’t…

So, why haven’t I had sex in two years?

My last experience was in Turkey, with a Russian girl I had met while on a trip in Georgia.

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