Making Decisions is Attractive and could help you Find Love!

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2 min readSep 6, 2019

Did you know that there is one thing men can do to improve their chances of a beautiful woman saying yes to dinner, a short-term relationship turning into a long-term commitment, and having rewarding interactions with the opposite sex? This powerful attribute is having confidence, which you show through making decisions.

Erica Gordon, published an article on Ask Men titled “Why Women like Confident Men” (https://uk.askmen.com/dating/heidi/why-women-love-confident-men.html). In her article, Erica shares that the number one complaint she hears from single women involves dealing with passive and indirect men. The article goes on to share that being a direct man helps relax your partners as they do not need to guess your thoughts and can simply enjoy being with you.

In addition to support from dating advice columns, numerous business books show that making decisions is a habit that earns you the respect of others. So the next time you meet a woman, whether online or offline, while still being kind, you can practice being direct with your intentions. If you would like to see a movie, you can set a date, time and pick a place and ask if she is available. Even if your schedules don’t match up for that date, the act of planning your date and directly asking her will help you win her affections.

Decisiveness is especially crucial at the beginning of your relationships. If your partner asks you about dinner, you should have in mind a place or two that you can take her to in the local area. It’s better to make a suggestion, instead of saying “Anything’s fine.” Most women want men to feel special and cared for part of this is making the decision to commit to her and the relationship. If you make the decision to truly love a woman and provide her with your time and affection, then you’ve already become a big winner to most women you will meet. This ability to focus and let her know that she is special to you, that you’ve made a choice to want only her, is key to building strong long-term relationships.

Even in international relationships between Chinese women and Western men, this principle holds true. We are all human, and love is a bond strengthened by our decisions. So when you meet your special someone, remember that letting her know your feelings directly could be the key to spending the rest of your lives together.

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