6 Habits That Scream You’re Trying Too Hard To Impress Someone

Watch out for them and learn to say no to them.

Boateng Sekyere
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4 min readSep 17, 2021

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People will go to extreme lengths to impress friends and even strangers.

You want them to remember the times they shared with you fondly; you want to leave them with positive associations of you.

But there’s no need to stress yourself to impress anyone. It’s about letting things flow naturally; allowing your personality to shine through.

Too often, however, people try too hard to impress others. And when it’s that obvious it can get awkward. Here are six ways you may be doing that — or habits you need to avoid.

1. Playing the role of a fake comedian

Humor builds and maintains healthy friendships; its benefits extend beyond conversations into real life.

That’s why many are so eager to show off their witty side. But that can lead down a rabbit hole of off-the-mark jokes that fall flat, leaving egg on everyone’s faces.

How many times have you forced yourself to laugh at an off-colour or flat joke?

If you don’t have a knack for stand up, don’t force things. People can sense it when you’re trying too hard to appear funny. That’s not the…

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Boateng Sekyere
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