Building Resilience is Boring. Here’s How to Make It Fun

Unlocking your inner resources — and enjoy doing it.

Karen Nimmo
Published in
4 min readJul 17, 2023

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I’ve talked resilience with hundreds of people.

It’s a worthy topic; we don’t take much convincing that we need it.

But you know what? Resilience is a boring word. Important, yes. Inspiring, no. If you use it too much in a therapy session you get the big ole eye-roll — especially from younger clients.

The trick is to frame resilience — and building it — as fun.

Luckily there’s a way to do it.

Everyone’s on Team Creative

Creativity is often over-looked as a means of building resilience.

That’s because many people still believe that creativity refers to your ability with a pencil or paintbrush. Or to invent life-changing gadgets, churn out majestic novels or make beautiful things.

But that’s a narrow, outmoded view. Because creativity is so much more than that — well used, it’s a way of life.

Many studies on resilient people identify creativity as a key trait; it can unlock inner resources for dealing with stress, solving problems, and enjoying life.

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Karen Nimmo

Clinical psychologist, author of 4 books. Editor of On the Couch: Practical psychology for health and happiness. karen@onthecouch.co.nz