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How a Borderline Personality Disorder Plays Out in Love

It is possible to survive the chaos?

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A man I worked with was confused by his partner’s behaviour.

They’d had an intense start to their relationship but, two years in, it was still highly charged. Emotional. Chaotic. Conflictual. He was increasingly anxious, always on edge for the next implosion.




Practical psychology for everyday life. Owned/Edited by clinical psychologist and writer Karen Nimmo.

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Karen Nimmo

Karen Nimmo

Clinical psychologist, writer. Editor of On the Couch: Practical psychology for everyday life. karen@onthecouch.co.nz

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