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I Quit Worrying For Good. Here’s How.

A simple method to make your brain shut up

Tristan Tell
On The Couch
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4 min readFeb 6, 2024

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“My life has been full of terrible misfortunes most of which never happened.”– Michel de Montaigne

I am a master of worrying.

But what if I, an experienced worrier, told you there’s a simple method that puts a permanent end to your worrying?

Worry, worry, and worry

Excessive worrying is the greatest obstacle to living a happy life.

When things go right, we worry about them going wrong.

When things go wrong, we worry about them getting worse.

When things get worse, we worry about them never getting better again.

When things are getting better, we worry about them going wrong again.

Worry prevents you from enjoying the present. It causes fear and traps you in a state of inaction.

I suffered from it a lot.

It started as a teenager. I would lie awake at night, worrying about friendships, grades, and my looks. Later, other worries were added to the list.

Often, my worrying thoughts influenced my behavior so much they became a…

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On The Couch
On The Couch

Published in On The Couch

Practical psychology for health and happiness. Owned/Edited by clinical psychologist and writer Karen Nimmo.

Tristan Tell
Tristan Tell

Written by Tristan Tell

I study psychology and write about life.

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