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The Powerful, Hidden Reason People Stay Too Long in Toxic Relationships

Even when they know they should leave

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You know this person’s not good for you.

You know it’s not healthy; you know you should leave.

You feel almost ashamed that you’re still there. And yet — there’s something holding you in it, something you don’t quite understand.




Practical psychology for everyday life. Owned/Edited by clinical psychologist and writer Karen Nimmo.

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Karen Nimmo

Karen Nimmo

Clinical psychologist, writer. Editor of On the Couch: Practical psychology for everyday life. karen@onthecouch.co.nz

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