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When You Want More Than Your Partner Will Give You

What is “enough” in a relationship?

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A woman had been with her partner for eight years — on and off.

Mostly on, to be fair. They’d had a few breaks but they’d always come back together.

“We’re good together,” she said. “We have some great times. But I want more from him — more presence and more emotional…




Practical psychology for everyday life. Owned/Edited by clinical psychologist and writer Karen Nimmo.

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Karen Nimmo

Karen Nimmo

Clinical psychologist, writer. Editor of On the Couch: Practical psychology for everyday life. karen@onthecouch.co.nz

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