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When Your Partner’s the Strong, Silent Type — and You’re Not

Dealing with a mismatch in communication bias.

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So your partner is the strong, silent, shut down type?

You probably think I’m talking about a man. I’m not, specifically. Emotionally Quiet types come in all sorts of packages.




Practical psychology for everyday life. Owned/Edited by clinical psychologist and writer Karen Nimmo.

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Karen Nimmo

Karen Nimmo

Clinical psychologist, writer. Editor of On the Couch: Practical psychology for everyday life. karen@onthecouch.co.nz

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