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You Can Do Better Than Someone Who’s Not in Love With You

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I love you, but I’m not in love with you.

I watched a man say this to his wife of 23 years.

I watched his face as he tried to drop the words gently. And I watched hers as his efforts at “gentle” broke her heart, her vision of the future, her everything.




Practical psychology for everyday life. Owned/Edited by clinical psychologist and writer Karen Nimmo.

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Karen Nimmo

Karen Nimmo

Clinical psychologist, writer. Editor of On the Couch: Practical psychology for everyday life. karen@onthecouch.co.nz

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