Dating is tough. Period. With the thousands of online dating sites and apps, it feels like finding a match is more difficult than ever. Strange how more options actually gives us less romantic results. We can feel like a needle in a haystack, lost in the sea of profiles. Well if you have ever felt dating fatigue or stress over not finding your perfect match, there may be a solution to take advantage of … egg freezing. Here are the top reasons why egg freezing makes dating better.
“You will feel lighter, freer, and think more clearly because you did everything within your power to take the necessary actions to protect your future”
1. You won’t have partner panic
The pressure is off … biological clock pressure that is. Now relax. Go on dates, have a good time, and make good dating choices. If someone says they don’t want kids now or ever, believe them and move on. No need to date the wrong person, fall for them and then give yourself a heartbreak when they don’t change their mind. People don’t change. So date and find someone who aligns with your morals, values, and life goals.
2. You are ahead of the game
By just thinking about freezing your eggs, you are already ahead of the game. You are protecting your family planning future. While nothing is guaranteed and egg freezing can be expensive, you will save more money now than you would spend if you were older trying to get the same results. Quality of eggs decrease as women age, so the earlier you freeze the likely better quality your eggs are which ensures a better chance of creating a family.
3. Your thinking and decision-making will be clearer and lighter
You know that 800-pound gorilla on your back? That thing called the ticking biological clock? Well you can drop that heavy load and breath again. You will feel lighter, freer, and think more clearly once you freeze your eggs, because you did everything within your power to take the necessary actions to protect your future. It will also shift your thinking, attitude, and frame of mind, which will positively effect and significantly improve your dating relationships or allow dating to be fun again.
4.You don’t have to lower your dating standards
Remember your mom’s advice about always having high standard and dating the good guys? Well now you can actually listen and take her up on all those rules that apparently help in finding those marriage-quality men. Egg freezing makes you value your own worth and empowers you to take charge or move on from the wrong people that you shouldn’t waste your time with, which in return leaves you open and ready for the right person.
5. You have more options than ever before
Once you freeze your eggs, it feels like the world is your oyster. You don’t have to giving up the dream of having kids the old fashion way, but you now have more options at your disposal to be your own egg donor, grow your family, or wait until you are ready. The choice is yours. Allow yourself to change your mind.
Check out eggsperience.com for more fertility topics and stories about the brave women on their journey to motherhood or choices that lead them to freezing their eggs
About Valerie Landis
Valerie Landis has been working in women’s health for the last decade. Her medical experiences and passion to help women at any reproductive age merged when she created her educational website eggsperience.com. Valerie hopes that by starting the conversation to protect our future selves with non-bias and fact-based information, women will feel inspired, brave, and act progressively to take control of their future today. She speaks openly about her personal egg freezing experience and family planning decisions along with highlighting a collection of first-hand accounts from other women’s journeys. Learn more about Valerie by following her online social media accounts.