The Destiny of Love
Is meeting the right person a case of destiny or not?
I might argue Yes and No to this question but ultimately I think it is. However is destiny just what happens or do we create our own destiny, and I believe this is the more accurate version of the same question.
I shall wander off the point slightly while I tell you my own personal story, then bring you back to explain my understanding.
I met my forever soulmate in the second half of my life and for the last 23 years am almost embrassed at how ridicuously happy we are together. It felt like we already knew each other when we met, as if we had already been together in some way before because we were so completely comfortable with each other and even through the tough times — of which there have been more than enough — we both knew that this was it for each of us.
We first met when I was 41 and he was 43. We got together a full year later and married three years after that, at 45 and 47 respectively. He has embraced my mental health issues, which include ADHD and PTSD, and I embraced his issues too. We have done amazing work in healing each other through just being ourselves with each other, our compatability and ability to totally see the other person for who they are, warts and all, without any projections, expectations and commodity exchanges.
