Good Is The New Bad

Positive is the new negative

You know life will continue to repeat itself until we become mindfully aware of the lesson and take it into consideration to learn what it can and will teach us. We need to stop being so emotional when it comes to life, and just take responsibility for it. Be responsible and mature about what you do in your life. If we want things to get better, that means we need to start our journey with fixing what we broke.

Though even if we broke people, we don’t necessarily need to fix them (they fix what you broke within them). Anyway, we all say that we want others (whoever they may be) to be mature, less ignorant, less self-involved and more selfless for example, they must lead by example. Or if you don’t, don’t expect them to follow what you inspire to if you aren’t living your examples.

And yes if you defend yourself, you aren’t making it easy for yourself nor anyone else. And your not building or strengthening your proof to back up your statement. You are acting immaturity by not taking responsibility for your actions and owning up to your mistakes without blame.

Try being more empathetic! Wouldn’t you want others to be empathetic with you? Don’t you think you should be empathic with someone, because then they would be empathic with you in return. Though don’t expect it to happen instantly and easily! And remind yourself:

“You cannot control how other people react, you can only control your own behaviour.” ~ Rosa, Date My Dad