Using the 5–4–3–2–1 Technique to Manage Anxious Thoughts

Val Koi
Overthinking framework
8 min readMay 12, 2023
Anyone experiencing anxiety or stress can benefit from it

At times, individuals find themselves in distressing situations that require immediate relief. It could be a stressful moment at work, an unexpected event, or just an overwhelming feeling of anxiety. In such instances, having a technique that can bring about quick relief can make all the difference.

One such technique, commonly used by people experiencing panic attacks, has proven effective in halting the “anxiety spiral” before it spirals out of control. Panic attacks are characterized by an intense feeling of fear and discomfort, often accompanied by physical symptoms such as rapid heartbeat, sweating, and trembling. This technique can help individuals regain control before the panic attack escalates.

However, this technique is not limited to individuals with panic disorders. Anyone experiencing anxiety or stress can benefit from it. The technique regulates one’s breathing and calms the mind. It’s a simple but effective method that can be done anywhere and at any time.

How to Take Control of Your Thoughts and Emotions

In moments of panic, the mind can become overwhelmed with thoughts and ideas, even if there is no immediate danger present. It’s as if the mind is running on overdrive, causing individuals to feel threatened and unsafe, even in the most tranquil of settings.

It’s a strange sensation, really, to be sitting in a beautiful, peaceful garden, surrounded by lush greenery and the sound of birds chirping, and yet feel as if the world is about to end. Panic has a way of taking over, and it can be difficult to regain control of one’s thoughts and emotions.

Despite the reality of the situation, the mind can create a narrative that tells a different story. It can conjure up scenarios of danger and risk, making it seem like the world is a much scarier place than it really is. It’s as if the mind is trying to protect us from something that isn’t even there.

But it’s important to remember that these feelings of panic are just that: feelings. They are not based on reality, but on our perception of reality. With the right tools and techniques, individuals can learn to control their thoughts and feelings, even in the midst of a panic attack.

How Engaging Your Senses Can Help You Break Free from Overthinking

The human mind is a powerful tool, capable of processing an infinite amount of information and making connections that allow us to navigate through life. However, sometimes this ability to think and analyze can backfire, leading to overthinking and rumination. This constant state of stress and worry can cause individuals to become disconnected from the present moment, lost in a sea of thoughts about the past or future.

But what if there was a way to regain focus and stop the cycle of overthinking? The concept is simple: by redirecting conscious awareness to the present moment, individuals can break free from the chains of overthinking. And one effective way to do this is by engaging the five senses.

When an individual takes a moment to check in with their senses, they become grounded in the present moment. They become aware of their surroundings and what is happening in the present, rather than getting lost in their thoughts. They notice the texture of the fabric on their clothes, the warmth of the sun on their skin, the sound of birds chirping outside. They take a moment to savor the taste of the food they are eating, or appreciate the beauty of a flower in bloom.

The body and its senses are always in the present moment, providing a way to bring the mind back to the here and now. By focusing on what they see, hear, smell, taste, and feel, individuals can quiet their thoughts and become more present in the moment. This simple technique can help them to reduce stress and anxiety, and live more fulfilling lives.

Using the 5–4–3–2–1 Technique to Manage Anxious Thoughts

When anxiety and panic start to take over, it can be challenging to find a way to regain control. However, sometimes the solution is as simple as taking a moment to pause, breathe, and look around.

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First, take a moment to observe your surroundings. Look around and focus on five things that you can see in your environment. It could be anything — the lamp sitting in the corner, your hands resting on your lap, or a painting hanging on the wall.

Once you have identified these five things, take a deep breath and allow yourself to fully immerse in the moment. Pay close attention to the texture, color, and shape of each item. Take your time to scan every detail and appreciate the unique qualities that make them what they are.

Perhaps you notice the intricate patterns and designs on the painting, or the rough texture of the lampshade. Maybe you feel the warmth emanating from your hands, or the smoothness of the surface they rest on. By taking the time to observe and appreciate the world around you, you can gain a deeper understanding of your environment and connect with it on a more profound level.

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Now that you have taken the time to observe your environment, let’s shift your focus to the sense of touch. Take a moment to identify four things that you can feel or touch in your surroundings. It could be the weight of your body against the chair, the texture of the jacket you’re wearing, or even the cool and smooth surface of a nearby car window.
As you identify each item, reach out and explore it with your sense of touch. Notice the way the fabric of your jacket feels against your fingertips, or the way the glass of the window feels cool to the touch. Pay attention to the weight and pressure of your body against the chair, and how it molds to your shape.

By taking the time to engage your sense of touch, you can become more mindful of your physical surroundings and deepen your connection to them. You may notice sensations you never would have paid attention to otherwise, such as the texture of a surface or the temperature of the air around you.

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Now that you have taken the time to observe and touch your environment, it’s time to focus on your sense of hearing. Take a moment to identify three things that you can hear around you. It could be the sound of your own breath, the distant hum of traffic, or the chirping of birds in the distance.
As you listen to these sounds, allow yourself to fully immerse in the experience. Focus on the rhythm and cadence of your breath, or the way the distant sounds of traffic blend together in the background. Pay attention to the unique melody of the birdsong and the way it echoes through the air.

By engaging your sense of hearing in this way, you can gain a greater appreciation for the sounds that surround you on a daily basis. You may notice new sounds that you have never paid attention to before, or become more mindful of the way different noises blend together to create a symphony of sound.

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Now that you have explored your surroundings through your sense of sight and touch, it’s time to engage your sense of smell. Take a moment to identify two things in your environment that you can smell. This may require some effort and attention, but with practice, you can train yourself to notice the scents that surround you.
Take a deep breath and focus on the subtle aromas that are present in your surroundings. Can you smell the lingering fragrance of soap on your skin, or the earthy scent of the paper on your desk? Perhaps you notice the faint aroma of coffee brewing in the distance, or the sweet smell of flowers blooming outside.

By paying attention to the scents around you, you can cultivate a greater awareness of your environment and deepen your connection to it. You may notice that certain scents evoke memories or emotions, and can even impact your mood and energy levels.

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Now that you have engaged your senses of sight, touch, hearing, and smell, it’s time to focus on your sense of taste. Take a moment to identify one thing that you can taste in your environment. It could be the lingering flavor of coffee on your tongue, the sweetness of a piece of fruit, or even the subtle taste of the air around you.
If you can’t find anything to taste, take a moment to dwell on the sensations of your mouth. Notice the way it feels, and the subtle sensations that may be present. Even without any food or drink, your mouth may have a taste of its own.

By taking the time to focus on your sense of taste, you can become more mindful of your physical sensations and deepen your connection to them. You may notice the way different tastes impact your mood and energy levels, or how certain flavors evoke memories or emotions.

Managing Your Thoughts and Emotions

The purpose of this exercise is not simply to engage your senses, but rather to provide a tool for managing your thoughts and emotions. By focusing your attention on your surroundings, you are effectively distracting your brain from overthinking and rumination.

Through regular practice of this exercise, you may begin to notice that it can instantly calm you and slow down your racing thoughts. By taking the time to engage your senses, you give yourself a break from the constant mental chatter that can lead to anxiety and stress.

The Key to Breaking the Cycle of Negative Thoughts

While going through this exercise, it’s common to forget which sense comes next, or to get caught up in the sensations of one sense and forget about the others. However, the order in which you engage your senses is not important. What matters most is that you are fully and actively engaging with something outside of yourself.

By focusing your attention on your surroundings, you are able to give your anxious energy a chance to dissipate. It can be challenging to stop thoughts by simply telling yourself to stop thinking, as this is in itself a thought. But by engaging your senses and temporarily pausing the endless cycle of thoughts, you can allow yourself to become more present and calm.

By taking the time to focus on your senses and become more aware of your physical sensations, you can learn to manage your thoughts and emotions more effectively, and cultivate a greater sense of inner peace and tranquility.

So the next time you find yourself caught up in worry or stress, try engaging your senses and focusing your attention on your surroundings. By doing so, you can give yourself a much-needed break from the constant mental chatter and allow yourself to become more present and centered in the moment.

What’s next?

This article and many more can be found at Sensebridge School

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Val Koi
Overthinking framework

I've got a time machine and a journalism degree, so now I can annoy people from any point in history with my questions and opinions.