With Narcissists, Everything You Say Can and Will Be Used Against You

And how to defend yourself.

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On the surface, narcissists may look like normal people. Normal people communicate, sharing ideas, opinions, experiences, and other information. This is especially noticeable during the “getting to know you” stage.




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