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Decode Your Love Interest By Sensing Their Attachment Style

Real-life examples to help you understand how they think and feel

May Pang
P.S. I Love You
10 min readApr 19, 2021

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Image by Peter David from Pixabay

I want you to play along with me. Let’s imagine that last week, you went to a bar and met four people you were attracted to. You thought giving a compliment would be a pretty safe thing to do. So, you say the same thing to each person, “You look great tonight.”

You got a glare, a beaming smile, silence, and a nervous laugh. In the same outfit, the same mood, and with the same line — you got four very different responses. You had been out of the dating game for a while and were suddenly reminded of exactly how mystifying it could all be.

You were about to give up and walk away when a dear friend of yours explained that their reaction was more about them and less about you and that you should pay attention to the cues they were giving out.

“Phew,” you thought. Then you realized that knowing that you have to read people differently doesn’t make you any better at reading them! That’s like saying you should look out for grammatical errors when no one had taught you the grammatical rules in the first place.

Well, have no fear. That same dear friend (i.e. me) is back to help you out — especially since needing to read their cues doesn’t stop…

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May Pang
May Pang

Written by May Pang

Combining Storytelling with Science. Communication & Connection Coach. Would love to hear from you!💗may@mojomint.com 💙 www.mojomint.com. Based in Boulder, CO.

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