High Tech Proposal: Marriage in the 21st Century

Rachael Pace
P.S. I Love You
Published in
4 min readMay 9, 2018

In the 21st century, the prevalence of technology cannot go unnoticed. Its use in our everyday lives is quite essential as we rely on technological innovations to wake up, work efficiently, stay connected to the people we love, and learn new skills. Gone are the days when technology did not play a key role in an individual’s life. Even something as private as a marriage proposal is required to have some unique high tech features. Take a look at a few creative, and uniquely romantic, marriage proposal ideas fit for the 21st century!

Going live on social media.

Although this may be one of the more obvious options on the list, it is certainly the most sought-after. Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, or some other form of social media might be a perfect place to propose marriage for a couple who believes social media has played a large part in how they met and in their relationship as well. Features like Going live, which is present on several social media platforms, can give the proposal a more urgent and exciting feel. Just be sure your significant other will say yes, or you may end up in an awkward situation.

Asking for the help of a celebrity.

Through the use of social media, people now have a closer connection to the celebrities that were once very distant in their everyday lives. Through the use of verified accounts on social media, individuals who otherwise would likely never meet or talk with celebrities now have this access to connect with their favorite celebrity. To make your proposal a little more unique and special, may ask for help from a celebrity. This is not always approved of by the celebrity, but can be a very unique and thoughtful experience if the celebrity is willing to go along with the fun!

Using a custom app.

Even if you do not know how to program one yourself, it is very easy to find an individual who is able to create an app for you. You can customize this app in any way you choose, and personalize it for the two of you. Using an app can have a number of creative benefits; not only is it rare but can be done using a theme or concept that describes the two of you as a couple. A few examples might be an app with crossword puzzles whose clues build up to marriage and end with the message “Will you marry me?” as the answer to one of the clues, or a video streaming app with the message at the end of one of the videos! The options with creating a custom app truly are endless, as each customization is unique to the individual making the request.

Creating a personality quiz.

Most likely there is not a single person on social media who has not, at some point of time, utilized a themed personality quiz. These quizzes are not of a testing nature but are those from which an individual may learn more about their personality or strengths. Many of the quizzes available online are personality style quizzes and have a list of general information for each of the quiz results. Simply create the quiz and leave the last question as “Will you marry me?”

Creating a music playlist.

For a new school twist on an old-school classic, try creating a playlist that indicates the intentions of the creator. For older generations, a cassette, radio call-in, or CD of selected songs had the same principle idea. Let each song on the list be special to the two of you or directly mentions marriage; the last song can then be either a song that makes the proposal itself, or an audio clip of you asking the question!

Playing a throwback video game.

Lastly, in keeping with the throwback or old school way of the posing with a new twist, a person could easily gain access to creating a marriage proposal message by hacking an old video game. This type of proposal is one that has gone viral in the past, and, if done right, can show just how much a person means to the individual proposing marriage. Who else would go to such lengths as to hide a proposal message in a video game except for the one they really love!

Above all else, a marriage proposal should be a special memory for the two people who will be spending their lives together. While using technology as part of the asking may not be for everyone, it can certainly play a part, especially if your relationship has been heavily impacted by its use. Get creative, but be sure to be you in the midst of the proposal, and you’re sure to receive a “YES” in response!

Author Bio: Rachael Pace is a relationship expert with years of experience in training and helping couples. She has helped countless individuals and organizations around the world, offering effective and efficient solutions for healthy and successful relationships. She is a featured writer for Marriage.com, a reliable resource to support healthy happy marriages.

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Rachael Pace
P.S. I Love You

Rachel Pace is a relationship expert with years of experience in training and helping couples. She has helped countless individuals.