NEWSLETTER

Identity Ingrain — the Secret to Long-Term Consistency and Success

March 2nd edition of the Manximize newsletter

Neeramitra Reddy
MANXIMIZE
Published in
3 min readMar 9, 2023

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I was teetering on the brink of burnout.

Star-high screen time. Poor focus. Left-over To-Do items. Constant self-doubt. Excessive FOMO. Miserable jealousy. Irritable anxiety.

Momentary bursts of clarity—only for the mental fog to return in full force.

But yesterday, a deep introspective discussion with my friend Akshad Singi vaporized the noxious fog.

While there were many insights, there’s one quick nugget I want to share with you.

It’s been the #1 differentiating factor between my successes and failures.

The Magic of A Strong Ego Investment

After 2+ years of struggling with NoFap relapses, I’m now over 80+ days clean.

The change?

A mindset shift from, “I must not jack off to p*rn as I’m doing NoFap,” to “I neither watch porn nor fap.”

A shift from a weak to a powerful ego investment.

With a weak ego investment, a relapse is only a relapse. A cheat day is only a cheat day. A skipped workout is only a skipped…

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Neeramitra Reddy
MANXIMIZE

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