NEWSLETTER
Identity Ingrain — the Secret to Long-Term Consistency and Success
March 2nd edition of the Manximize newsletter
I was teetering on the brink of burnout.
Star-high screen time. Poor focus. Left-over To-Do items. Constant self-doubt. Excessive FOMO. Miserable jealousy. Irritable anxiety.
Momentary bursts of clarity—only for the mental fog to return in full force.
But yesterday, a deep introspective discussion with my friend Akshad Singi vaporized the noxious fog.
While there were many insights, there’s one quick nugget I want to share with you.
It’s been the #1 differentiating factor between my successes and failures.
The Magic of A Strong Ego Investment
After 2+ years of struggling with NoFap relapses, I’m now over 80+ days clean.
The change?
A mindset shift from, “I must not jack off to p*rn as I’m doing NoFap,” to “I neither watch porn nor fap.”
A shift from a weak to a powerful ego investment.
With a weak ego investment, a relapse is only a relapse. A cheat day is only a cheat day. A skipped workout is only a skipped…