4 Life-Changing Truths I Learned From My Bullying Experience That Made Me Psychologically Secure
Trauma can be a blessing in disguise
I had a bully. Unlike most kids, I wasn't bullied in the school playground but in the confines of my home, the safest place for a kid.
School on the other hand was my sanctuary. I was an average student with many great friends.
I know I am not alone as 68% of physically abused kids get harassed and bullied at the hands of a family member. This staggering statistic should stop you in your tracks.
These kids are at a higher risk of depression and drug abuse. They are also likely to have PTSD because of traumatic stress.
I have never done any drugs but I have experienced PTSD in the form of night terrors that would wake me up in the middle of the night. I used to wake up with a jolt expecting the worst.
But having a bully taught me more about life and people than I can ever imagine. I am still not strong enough to refer to him directly as I don’t want to face the consequences of this “betrayal”, but I am ready to share the lessons he taught me.
