Contrarian Life Advice From a Former Educator Who Didn’t Really Like School
Lean into what you were bullied for
I recall the day my subconscious self linked schools to prisons.
I was the client in a career construction interview and narrated my favorite story, which was set in Auschwitz.
This spurred my colleague to get me thinking of possible prisons in my life.
I instantly thought of the schools I’ve been in, as a student and educator.
I thought too of how I was imprisoning myself mentally, persevering in an environment that was draining my soul.
I took so long to write this article because I’ve benefited from schools. I’ve met genuinely good souls there and grown profoundly.
Yet when it comes to institutions and schooling, I suspect some of us are scarred — and remain unconsciously so.
Here’s some contrarian advice that can help us examine and transcend the tough bits for personal growth.
1. Lean into what you were bullied for
I feel sad when I see people being traumatized by what they were bullied for in school.
