TWO HUNDRED FIFTY THINGS TO KNOW AT THE START OF A PROJECT
After Michael Sorkin
6 min readFeb 10, 2022
- Why you’re doing this
- How to give credit where it’s due
- How to apologise
- How much money you have
- The names of your teammates’ children or partners
- How your body feels when you’re hungry
- How your body feels when you’re angry
- When to revisit a conversation
- Your hopes and fears
- What skills you bring
- The closest place to get snacks
- What you still need to learn
- A poem off by heart
- The urgent important matrix
- Your vision
- Your priorities for the week
- Your priorities for the day
- How your project will be governed
- Braiding Sweetgrass by Robin Wall Kimmerer
- What you’ll give up to do it
- The pronouns of those you’re working with
- How your body feels when you’re standing in your integrity
- How to ask for what you need
- Why people want to work with you
- Why they don’t
- The number of a good therapist
- Emergent Strategy by Adrienne Maree Brown
- Start Close In by David Whyte
- What physical exercise works for you
- A good number of icebreakers
- How to measure success
- When to move on
- The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk
- Why you’re the right person / people to do this
- How to listen
- Where your teammates want to be in 1, 2, 5 years
- When to take a break
- How white supremacy culture is showing up
- What foods disagree with you
- Your project’s sexual harassment policy
- Some good management practices
- Not to wear waistbands that are uncomfortable
- Seven Brief Lessons on Physics by Carlo Rovelli
- How the legacy of your childhood still impacts you
- 20–8–2 ergonomics
- The number of a good coach
- BurnOut by Dean Spade
- How many hours of sleep you need
- Box breathing
- Maya Angelou
- Your favourite song to dance to
- That you are more than any title
- Who you will and won’t accept money from
- When to take a nap
- What harm your project might cause
- Standing in the Fire by Larry Dressler
- To turn off every non-essential phone notification
- Where the first aid kit is
- News From Nowhere by William Morris
- How much technology actually costs
- How the project’s salaries or day rates compare benchmarked against the sector average
- What Glassdoor says
- Loving Kindness meditation
- What your plans are for the weekend
- How to celebrate
- How to say thank you
- When to say no
- Where your passwords are kept
- How to do Nothing by Jenny Odell
- How to use a VPN
- How to turn on 2-factor authentication
- When to get administrative support
- The Enneagram
- When religious holidays are
- What affirmation bias is
- When to step down
- The trust equation
- What will be lost if you don’t do it
- A handful of reasonably priced event venues in your town
- A handful of reasonably priced meeting rooms in your town
- Roughly how much food and drink you need per person
- 5 Pathways to Effective Decisions
- Where your headphones are
- The ‘touch up my appearance’ filter on Zoom, if you like that sort of thing
- When your next holiday is
- The Power of Ritual by Casper ter Kuile
- When to get a work phone
- How your identity has impacted your life’s trajectory
- Reinventing Organisations by Frédéric Laloux
- The names of those coming up after you that might want your mentorship
- How paid advertising works
- The Nap Ministry
- To pay any interns
- When to call bullshit
- How to take responsibility
- Who you’re accountable to
- POP
- DARCI
- How people can support your project
- Your neighbours
- Sorrow
- The Power of Vulnerability by Brené Brown
- How to cook a meal in less than 20 minutes
- The Braving Inventory by Dare to Lead
- Good dental hygiene
- A good joke
- Joy
- How to request a ‘slice’
- A champion
- What you don’t know
- Not to write in caps lock
- Your subject
- The StartUp episode on BurnOut
- Who’s missing from the table
- Who you will invite to the table
- Your mantra
- The current climate change projections
- Your fears
- Multiple ways of knowing
- Who you would be if you achieved your goals
- Your boundaries
- How to give a media interview
- What a Fuck off fund is
- The need for freaks
- Who will profit
- A good playlist
- What makes you happy
- The Index Card: Why Personal Finance Doesn’t Have To Be Complicated, Helaine Olen
- What your close friends are worrying about
- What your partner/s want/s to talk to you about
- To set calendar reminders for birthdays and anniversaries
- Who to call in an emergency
- The Five whys
- The Toyota Way
- How to keep a plant alive
- The restorative power of moving your body
- Your go-to karaoke song
- All About Love: New Visions by bell hooks
- How many post-it notes is enough post-it notes
- The Gentrification of the Mind by Sarah Schulman
- The Tara Brach podcast
- Your nearest nature walk
- To carry a reusable tote bag
- Borderlands by Gloria Anzaldua
- Nuance
- Ruby Sales
- That other sectors are doing interesting things, and often earlier
- Polyvagal theory
- How to ask an open-ended question
- That not everyone is going to like you
- That you’re going to be misunderstood
- How much caffeine your body can take
- When to call it a night
- Who you can cry to
- What you need from your partner/s
- Ivy Ross
- When your next health check-up is
- That change is not linear
- What a ‘yes’ feels like in your body
- What a ‘no’ feels like
- The Three Marriages by David Whyte
- When to give it more time
- Ursula K. Le Guin’s daily routine
- The difference between an internal and external deadline
- The number of a good lawyer
- Your rights under arrest
- When you’ve missed the window
- Your best critics
- That it’s ok to not be ok
- How to facilitate a conversation
- Letters to a Young Poet by Rilke
- How much alcohol your body can take
- How much sugar your body can take
- When to update your funders / investors
- A Center by Ha Jin
- What GDPR stands for
- The importance of good hardware
- Your favourite TV show to zone out to
- What you’d do with a large unanticipated capital injection
- How to read a profit and loss statement
- The difference between budget and cash flow
- Wait Without Hope by TS Eliot
- How you plan to retain your best people
- How you will make decisions
- How you’ll know when you’re done
- The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying-Up by Marie Kondo
- Who would love to support you
- How you’ll tell them about it
- Who you look up to
- What you still want to learn
- The praise to criticism ratio
- The number of a good facilitator
- How it will impact the local environment
- How it will impact the local community
- How it will impact future generations
- Let Your Life Speak by Parker Palmer
- Not to be flattered
- Not to accept all-male, all-white panels
- Wild Geese by Mary Oliver
- What ‘professional’ means to you
- Not to worry about looking professional
- Whose voices you can amplify
- How not to be a shill
- To pay people on time
- How much you are willing to travel
- A More or Less Definitive Guide To Showing Up For Friends
- The gender pay gap of your project
- The racial pay gap of your project
- A Blessing For One Who Holds Power by John O’Donohue
- What task management system you’ll use
- How to manage your time
- What gives you pleasure
- What your project’s values are
- How you measure your own value
- How to keep the hoping machine running
- What and who you are willing to commit to
- Bread and roses
- Why UX design is important
- The importance of a good mattress
- The benefits of Vitamin D
- The Emotion Wheel
- That it’s better to go out again than hire the wrong person
- When a check and balance becomes bureaucracy
- That you are not a robot
- The argument for why your project should not exist
- Whether you agree
- Someone who will tell you the truth
- The truth, as much as you can
- Love Languages
- Attachment Theory
- The Zoom password
- The sight and smell of fresh flowers
- Your succession plan
- What it would mean to decolonise your project
- What it would mean to decolonise your life
- The Bridges’ Transition Model
- How to fix your boiler pressure
- When you might meet in person
- What communications channels you will use
- Where your spare keys are
- The Art of Gathering by Priya Parker
- What day your rubbish is collected
- That there are probably more than 100 billion galaxies in the observable universe
- Why people give money
- That meritocracy doesn’t exist
- That the only constant is change
- That you have to keep reading
- How to be a follower
- Instructions on Not Giving Up by Ada Limon
- How to gather new ideas…
What would you add? Email me at hanna@wealign.net