This is When You Will Know They’re the Right Person for You

4 ways to filter out non-committal partners.

Paul Trood
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Many find themselves in the wrong relationships because they don’t properly filter or vet the people they date.

They find someone they initially like and overlook glaringly obvious red flags because they don’t want to be alone. Then the honeymoon phase ends and they’re left with the real version of their partner.

It’s not always an enjoyable experience.

I wish I had developed this list earlier in my dating life because it would have saved me a lot of time.

But the best lessons are learned from failure.

The inspiration for this story came from Dating Sucks, but You Don’t: The Modern Guy’s Guide to Total Confidence, Romantic Connection, and Finding the Perfect Partner, Connell Barrett.

1. Do they intend to be a partner?

This is priority number one. If the person you’re dating or already in a “relationship” with doesn’t make it a priority, it’s a situationship.

People want the “benefits” of a relationship with minimal to no effort. They want a partner without considering the idea of being that to someone else.

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Paul Trood
Hello, Love

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