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The Conflict Paradox: Why Opening Your Mind Is Your Strongest Move
Less friction, more focus — work through disagreements to reach your goals
Why your brain hates friction and discord (the interaction, not the social platform)
Conflict doesn’t have to derail your dreams, tank your business, or ruin your relationships. Dealt with effectively, conflict can inspire you to learn and grow. Face it: bumping up against other people’s points of view is part of life. Whether it’s your co-founder, your critique partner, your best friend, or that cousin who always knows better, disagreements are woven into the fabric of being human.
The secret sauce? Making sure everyone involved walks away feeling like they weren’t just shouting into the void. Feeling heard isn’t just a feel-good perk; it’s fundamental, especially when you’ve got goals to hit.
Conflict usually lights up when someone feels like their needs, ideas, or just their general sense of well-being is under attack. It’s biology — that primal urge to either throw down or run for the hills kicks in when we perceive a threat.
