Self Love Isn’t Selfish

Love yourself

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You absolutely must love yourself. It is non-negotiable. When we love ourselves, we can be wholly unmasked and vulnerable. 🎭

We can wholeheartedly give love from the depths of our souls, free from any fear of betrayal or abandonment.

The truth is, there are still people who will betray you, hurt you, and tap dance across your heart. 💔

I’m not implying it doesn’t cause pain, but you can overcome it more quickly by embracing self-love.

I decided to stop betraying myself and my needs. I no longer go to great lengths to seek external validation or approval. I have stopped accommodating others at the expense of my well-being. Instead, I chose to embrace a path of self-empowerment.

It has taken me many years to recognize my value and self-worth and to respect my boundaries. I hold high standards for how I should be treated. If someone does not meet these standards, they will not have a permanent place in my life.

💞Self-love is not narcissism. It’s about honoring oneself, respecting boundaries, and never becoming an extension of anyone else.

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