I’m afraid To Date White Men

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For a few years now I have been afraid to date White men. Not against, but afraid. And it’s something I’ve been battling with internally for a while.

Why am I afraid? Well, I’m afraid to fall in love with a White man and all of a sudden hear him say the N-word. I’m afraid to date a White man who views me as his sexual fetish aka BBC aka big black cock. I’m afraid to date a White man who “ doesn’t see color” and…