6 Qualities of Subtly Insecure People

#1. They are loud.

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Some people are highly insecure. You can see it from the way they talk, from how they move, and even from their posture. Actually, some of them even say it out loud.

There are also people who from the outside look particularly confident — they take care of their appearance, dress elegant, speak and walk confidently — while the reality is they have a deep lack of self-esteem. Their insecurity is more subtle, because in order to see it, you have to look closer at them and how they behave.

Here are six qualities subtly insecure people tend to have in common.

1. They Are Loud

This doesn’t mean all loud people are insecure. However, something subtly insecure people tend to have in common is they crave attention, so they are often loud.

Being loud doesn’t only mean to speak loudly. It is also a continuous attempt to become the center of the attention, in every situation. Here are some examples of someone being particularly loud:

• Dancing on a table at a party or any other social gathering (and being the only one doing that);
• Singing loudly, when you’re in a restaurant with a group of friends, because you want to show off your voice;