7 essential books for when life gets hard
I made a list for my young cousin of the 7 books she must read, after she underwent a massive heartbreak, and uttered these words for the first time: wow life is hard.
A philosophical, spiritual and psychological novel by Nobel Prize winner Hesse. It’s a story of a young Indian Brahmin’s pursuit of enlightenment. It is the story of life, suffering and meaning, written in the most captivating novels of all time.
Biggest takeaway: No amount of knowledge and learning can give me the true sense of peace or happiness unless it is enlivened by real first-hand experience. I am my own teacher.
Note: This is not self-help per se, but its impact on my personal growth was tremendous.
Harari an Israeli historian, tells the entire history of the human race, in a mere 400 pages. This book is enlightening, informative, and provocative.
Biggest takeaway: Zooming out and looking at my life from a species standpoint gave me perspective and grounding. How we came to be “special” through the cognitive revolution, and how having the ability to imagine allows us to organize at a big scale and accomplish advancements. Are we happier though?
Byron Katie is the spiritual teacher I respect the most. In this book, she shares her story of how she came to liberate herself from the story of the past and the future, and guides us through her simple yet powerful method to question our stressful thoughts and beliefs to be free from suffering.
Biggest takeaway: Everything my mind tells me is a story, and I should question it. We tend to project our own stories of ourselves onto others. I stopped blaming the other for my wellbeing and happiness since reading this book.
Viktor Frankl, a doctor in psychiatry, survived Auschwitz but lost all his family. In this masterpiece, he ponders life, and shares his experience and story about how without meaning in our lives we cannot thrive.
Biggest takeaway: Completely shifted my life’s focus from happiness to meaning. Once you know your why you can survive any how.
The Lebanese genius Gebran’s masterpiece, is a collection of poetic essays that ponder life’s biggest questions. It will transport you, inspire you and enchant you.
Biggest takeaway: I specifically enjoyed the sections on passion, love and pain. I often go back to the book when I feel stuck and re read passages of it.
The celebrated Zen Buddhist teacher and monk Thich Naht Han, has the gift of transforming Buddhist teaching into accessible wisdom, soft like the rose petals. In his one of his many books, he focuses on suffering, which is an inevitable part of our lives.
Biggest takeaway: how to continue finding joy in the suffering, and how to cultivate compassion and understanding by staying with the hard feelings.
Why do we fear death? What is death? The controversial guru, flips around death on its head and by the end of the book, you are left with a completely new approach to life itself.
Biggest takeaway: aging became about maturing the soul. I felt a sense of peace about the process of dying to realize that our societal limiting beliefs are what make it scary.
What are some of your favorite books for when things get hard? Please share in the comments.
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