Mind-bending truths that have transformed my life

Don’t waste energy on lost causes — the sunk-cost fallacy. Sometimes, giving up on a path opens the door to a better one

Thomas Oppong
Personal Growth

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Life’s lessons are rarely absolute.

There are paradoxes all around us.

The most valuable lessons in life are often contradictory. There’s a hidden layer of wisdom beneath confusing ideas.

We see them play out again and again, even though they defy logic on the surface. The real magic happens when look past surface understanding, past the seemingly contradictory nature of things.

That’s when the true wisdom starts to shine through.

Here are 23 paradoxes that have changed my life.

Trying too hard to be interesting can backfire. Genuineness is more attractive than forced attempts to impress others. There is a sweet spot between effort and a natural, engaging personality.

Forgiveness isn’t always easy, but holding onto grudges only hurts you. Let go of resentment. Choose peace over bitterness and move on with a lighter heart. Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself, not the other person.

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Thomas Oppong
Personal Growth

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