The 3 Word Question to Improve Your Life

How to achieve greater success with judgment calls

John P. Weiss
Personal Growth
Published in
7 min readApr 18, 2021

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Top photo and illustrations by John P. Weiss

It had been a long, 12-hour day at the Wall Street investment bank Salomon Brothers. For Trisha Meili, her position as vice president in the bank’s corporate finance department and energy group often resulted in long days.

Trisha was only 28 years old, which is young for a bank vice president, but she came to the bank with an impressive educational background. She was a Phi Beta Kappa economics major at Wellesley College. She earned an M.A. from Yale University and an M.B.A. in finance from the Yale School of Management.

Running was part of Trisha’s daily routine, so after her 12-hour workday, she decided to go jogging in Central Park. An article in Refinery29.com describes what happened next:

“Hours later, two men found Meili naked, bound, and gagged in a ravine in the 102nd Street Transverse, a wooded area in the northern section of the park. Meili had been severely beaten. Her eye socket was crushed, and she had skull fractures. Doctors at the Metropolitan Hospital didn’t expect her to survive and told her family that if she awoke, she would be a vegetable.

Miraculously, after 12 days in a coma, Meili woke up. She did not remember anything from the attack.”

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John P. Weiss
Personal Growth

I write books, stories and essays about life, often illustrated with my photography and artwork. JohnPWeiss.com.