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Creative lovemaking ideas; How to stay hard and aroused during sex
Personal Sex Advice by Deni for ‘Samarel Eros’
Dear Deni
I am having a problem, SOMETIMES, cumming while having sex with my wife, whom I do love and am attracted to. I do enjoy the lovemaking, but then, simply lose ‘it’ at a certain point. The thing is, I have no problem at all cumming while watching porn or having cyber-sex. I guess i am addicted to porn, but how can I enjoy both worlds without being ‘cured’ of this addiction?
Curious B
Dear B
Male erections!
What a wonderful thing! And, OH GOODNESS, I do enjoy them!
But did you know that man is the ONLY mammal that has no bone inside his penis? A man maintains an erection solely through mental stimulation! The triggers that cause other animals to discharge their semen are largely chemically driven. Not so for a man. For a man to discharge, his brain must specifically instruct his groin to cum.
That means he must be MENTALLY stimulated. It is a man’s mental stimulation that creates and maintains his erection, and then allows his orgasm. It is this critical MENTAL stimulation that may be missing from your marital sex.
