Will You Photograph My Wedding?

How to answer that question when you’re not a wedding photographer.

Mark Ali
Photo Dojo

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A photographer taking a picture of a bride and groom cutting the cake at their wedding reception.
Photo by NeONBRAND on Unsplash

If you’re a photographer, but not a wedding photographer, chances are you’ve been asked the question that’s the title of this article.

Sometimes it happens because people just don’t want to pay a pro photographer. And there’s nothing wrong with that — professional wedding photographers are often expensive. (The good ones are, anyway.) They’re well worth the money, and I encourage everyone out there to hire a pro if you can. But sometimes couples are on a very tight budget.

Whatever the reason, being asked to photograph the most important day in someone’s life is a high honor and a compliment, and it should be taken that way. Clearly, the couple trusts your abilities and has confidence in you.

And, just like a marriage proposal, there are obviously two responses to this question: Yes or No

Both require some careful navigation.

You could say “Yes”

You might answer this way if…

  • You want to take on the challenge.
  • You like the people who are asking, and you want to help them out.
  • You want to get into wedding photography and you’d like the…

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Mark Ali
Photo Dojo

I’m a writer, a photographer, a music lover, and a professional ice sculptor. I’m kidding about that last thing. (View my portfolio at: markaliphotos.com)