1,000 Sexually Liberated People Have This in Common

Use it to liberate yourself in three easy steps.

Nadège, sex scholar
Pleasure Science
Published in
5 min readOct 13, 2020

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What does it mean to feel at peace with sex?

Once a month I host an Erotic Writing Workshop for women and feminine people; and I hear this inquiry asked often.

We live in a society where shame is more normal than sexual liberation. As such, many people accept that guilt, shame, or pain will always be connected to their sex life. Actually, feeling liberated and healed in your sexuality is possible.

In a recent interview with sex scholar Dr. Emily Nagoski (you may have heard of her best-selling book Come As You Are or watched one of her three TED talks) she discusses a study where 1,000 people identified as sexually liberated.

After examining the research, Dr. Nagoski found one similarly among all the participants.

Each person had to relearn everything they thought they knew about gender, sex, and sexuality.

Relearn everything? That’s not overwhelming at all.

While you may or may not agree with the conclusion of this study, the results resonated with me. I’m queer woman who grew up in a Jewish and Catholic…

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Nadège, sex scholar
Pleasure Science

Sex scholar & bestselling author featured in Cosmo, Women's Health, & The History Channel. Learn what your natural sex strengths are → PleasureScience.com