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I Need More Money to Survive Old Age
And there’s no way I’m going to get it
Don’t talk about money.
That was one of the societal rules I grew up with. Everyone knew it. Most people my age and older still abide by it, and lots of people in younger generations follow suit.
If you have a lot of money and you talk about it, you’re bragging. If you don’t have any and talk about it, you’re looking for a handout. Get a job. If you want or need more money than you already have and you talk about it, stop talking and get a job.
You’re sharing too much. You’re making people uncomfortable. It’s not polite. It’s crass. It’s nobody’s business.
It’s a bullshit rule.
I desperately need money I don’t currently have to be able to retire someday. There. I said it. I just overcame decades of cultural conditioning.
I don’t have enough money. I need much more of it. I don’t want to be 75 years old and greeting people in a big box store because even though I have job skills, no one is going to hire a 75-year-old accountant.
My retirement savings are not adequate enough to see me through the rest of my life even with the help of Social Security benefits. I can’t contribute more of my paycheck than I already do to my 401(k) because I live…