My Journey to Polyamory… and Back

And what I learned along the way

Redefining Love
Nov 18, 2020 · 5 min read

This is your last chance. After this, there is no turning back. You take the blue pill — the story ends, you wake up in your bed and believe whatever you want to believe. You take the red pill — you stay in Wonderland, and I show you how deep the rabbit hole goes.

— Morpheus “The Matrix”

I understood that I had been compromising so much for no good reason that I’d stayed with my husband not because I was in love with him, but because I wanted to accommodate him and the children.

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