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The First Six Months of a Relationship Where I Denied My Kinky Poly Self

I was so caught up in new relationship energy I abandoned my own learned identity.

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At the time, I was with a married man, more than 20 years older than me. I thought for sure his wife knew, but looking back I’m not so sure. I thought we were ethically polyamorous, but I’m pretty sure he…

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Exploring polyamory and ethical non-monogamy in modern times.

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