When a Poly Relationship Leaves You Feeling “Less Than,” Should You Bolt?

I learned long ago that I cannot change how someone feels about me by sheer force of will.

Photo courtesy of Jan Zhukov @privetjan (with edits)

Adam and I had been dating for almost three years. We saw each other about once every month or two, which was never quite enough for me. Schedules, life, and other relationships being what…