Why is cybersex good for you?
When I tell people I write about cybersex and do marketing strategies for a sex chat, I get a lot of curious reactions. They range from a polite misunderstanding and misconception to “OMG, you’re secretly a pervert”! Well, to make things clear — sex chat is not porn and a person behind the marketing of things that have “sex” in the name does not necessarily have to be a pervert. The person has to be insightful, creative, nice and open-minded. Well, basically this person has to be me.
The truth is that rarely do people — even those who are open about sex — respond cybersex positively. Why? Because like many other things that are linked to technology it is consider dangerous, dehumanising and simply and escape for those who are just simply too hideous or to perverted to have any kind of relationship. It is kind of weird that even though so many consenting adults are having sex online, we still think of it as “wrong”. The truth is we love sex, and we definitely love technology. Let’s try to love the two together.
To make online sex more loveable, I would just like to mention few benefits to cybersex. Yeah! Don’t be surprised, there are benefits to cybersex! Cybersex, very much like real-life sex is a wonderful thing — only when done properly and with an open-minded attitude. So I give you my top ten reasons why cybersex is good for you — whoever you are and wherever you are*.
It is SAFE!
Despite the sensationalist buzz around internet predators, cybersex is actually a lot safer than real life sex. Simply don’t give out personal information and remember to do it where the technology can provide safety — like at thespotlive.com. You do not have to worry about STD’s, unwanted pregnancy or any of that stuff.
It is CONVENIENT sex for singles
Cybersex doesn’t require an empty house, a hotel room, or even a bed. More importantly, it doesn’t require the lengthy tactics of face-to-face seduction. No matter what your taste is, you can actually enjoy sex without the additional fuss. I am not saying dates are a fuss, but sometimes it is so much more convenient to have great cybersex than no sex at all.
It is CONVENIENT sex for couples and long distance relationships
By having regular webcam sex, some couples are actually capable of staying together. Being long-distance doesn’t mean you have to be sexually frustrated or cheat on each other.
“The truth is we love sex, and we definitely love technology. Let’s try to love the two together.”
You can actually MAKE MONEY
And that is nothing to be ashamed of! I know there are stigmas around using your body for cash, but I think that if you are open-minded individual; if you combine the safe environment, creativity, and convenience of cybersex, you can make some extra bucks.
You can TRY new stuff
Trying new kinks in real life can be frustrating and somehow can lead to disappointment. And because cybersex isn’t actually “real,” it gives people a chance to experiment with sex acts and fetishes. It’s sort of like testing things without any risk. Remember that internet sex communities are far more accepting and almost always anonymous!
You can GAIN CONFIDENCE and become more SELF-AWARE!
Self-esteem has a great impact on your sexual attractiveness. The more you accept yourself and the more the world likes you, the more you blossom. You might think you’re not a sexy beast but you are wrong. Someone out there on the world wide web shares your sexual interests — and thinks you’re damn hot!
You can and will MEET new people
Having “real” sex with “real” strangers can be “really” hazardous. Having cybersex with someone you’ve just met may seem strange, but it definitely is far less dangerous. In my opinion it can actually lead to lasting online friendships. It’s sort of like having a “safe” fuck buddy.
You can be more CREATIVE
Cybersex is an art. Well actually it is a cyber-art. You can become a writer, director and producer of your own fantasies. You can also take pride in your digital-camera skills and just be great pornography photographer snapping your naked selfies, belfies and so on.
You can PRACTICE for “the real thing”
Just like discovering the kinks you want to try, practicing before the “real stuff” is so much easier with cybersex. You can practice talking dirty, you can act out your fantasies, you can even try out the wildest fantasies.
It is PLEASEANT!
It simply is…
* unless you are considered minor in your place of residence!
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