Integrated Feminism Part Two: Trust Trumps Love

You can tell my brain is reawakening cuz my integrated theory is fleshing out new corners: love can never be enough. It is not a tool; and it cannot be forced. To promote love for that which kills and damages us is to ask for our suicide.

Instead, activism, home-building, and community MUST be built on trust. That is the first and most necessary exchange for creating anything: from relationships to businesses to your house.

Stop saying love will win out. Love is simply the organically-arising emotion that fills you when your values are mirrored or…