If you’ve betrayed someone you love this is how to come back

Life isn’t always a straight road. Sometimes, you have to fight to prove yourself again.

E.B. Johnson | NLPMP | Editor
Practical Growth
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14 min readNov 13, 2019

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by: E.B. Johnson

Earlier this week, I wrote a little about betrayal and overcoming unexpected heartbreak. Betrayal is one of the hardest and most humbling parts of the human experience. Whether you’re betrayed by a friend or a lover, getting deceived by the ones we care about most is a hard pill to swallow, and an even harder obstacle to overcome. Betrayal is more than a loss of trust, it’s a loss of self — and that goes doubly for the betrayer, who too experiences an array of emotions and negative fallout that can make it hard for them to find their way again.

If you’ve betrayed someone, it’s imperative that you learn how to understand the patterns and triggers that bring you to your worst impulses. Stop hurting the people you love and start getting honest with yourself and the world, in order to create a future you can actually be proud of. You’ll never be happy until you learn how to trust in yourself and others, but you have to make a commitment and put in the work to get there.

What is betrayal?

At it’s most basic level, betrayal occurs when we take advantage of the trust and…

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E.B. Johnson | NLPMP | Editor
Practical Growth

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