Reading the Signs When It’s Time for a Serious Commitment
Are you ready to take the leap? Are they?
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I knew my partner was going to be the person I spent the rest of my life with about a year into our relationship. Things weren’t going well at work and I was having a really hard time adjusting to life in a new country. Fed up and at the end of my fuse, I returned from a lunch break one day to see a vase of flowers waiting for me on my desk.
“What’s this?”
My boss was sitting at the other end of the office, hammering away on his keyboard. His face was unreadable behind the huge computer screen, but there was a strange energy in the air.
“They’re for you,” he told me, hardly looking up. “They’re from your boyfriend.”
I was shocked I had never been sent flowers before, not from anyone that wasn’t family. That shocked magnified tenfold when my boss got up from his desk, walked around the edge and revealed even more.
“He called me too.”
“What?” My belly dropped.
