Solid signs they aren’t attracted to you

Chasing someone who can’t seem to love you back? They’re not attracted to you and these are the signs to look out for.

E.B. Johnson | NLPMP | Editor
Practical Growth
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9 min readJun 23, 2021

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A woman is ignored by her crush while he laughs on the phone.
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by: E.B. Johnson

Have you fallen for someone that you just can’t seem to nail down? Sometimes, there’s a bigger message in the chase. If you’re always pursuing someone who never slows down, you may be dealing with someone who isn’t really attracted to you. Take a step back and look at the signs all around you. Are you wasting your time on something that will never work? When they aren’t attracted to you, give yourself a brutal dose of radical honesty.

Signs they aren’t attracted to you.

Is your new love interest really that into you? Or are you playing yourself again? When someone is really feeling us, it’s obvious. When they’re not on the same wavelength — the same is true. It’s up to us to be honest with ourselves. Are they really trying to get to know us? Do they want to spend time with us? Get closer to us? Being honest is the only way to avoid total heartbreak.

Zero physical touch

Does your love interest show a lot of physical interest in you? Do they go out of the way to be near you? Do they touch your hand, try…

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E.B. Johnson | NLPMP | Editor
Practical Growth

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