What happens when a narcissistic parent dies

It’s not as freeing as you think it is. But also — it is.

E.B. Johnson | NLPMP | Editor
Practical Growth
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10 min readJun 18, 2021

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by: E.B. Johnson

While the death of a narcissistic parent may seem like a release of sorts — it’s a far more complicated thing. When we our narcissistic parents leave us, it opens the door on all sorts of major revelations. These bring up complex emotions, and a lot of nuances, which can completely change the way we see ourselves and the people our parents chose to be. Are you still reeling from the death of a narcissistic mother or father? Give yourself time to grieve before you slowly open the door on major healing and transformation.

The death of a narcissist is complicated.

The fallout following the death of a narcissist is just as complex and confusing as their lives with us are. Nothing is straightforward. We become deeply attached to our narcissistic parents — by design. When they leave us, it can create a large hole in our lives that forces us to question everything we know about life, love, and the world at large. The death of a narcissist is complicated. Understanding those complexities is crucial in moving forward.

Overwhelming grief

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E.B. Johnson | NLPMP | Editor
Practical Growth

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