Coming Home to My Sexuality Was the Gift That Saved Me

I am Tremaine. I am no one else.

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I believe, as human beings, we can be almost anything outside of society’s perfect little boxes for us, but when we’ve ascertained who we actually are, this discovery can be lifesaving. I say this so you are aware, like many LGBTQ living and breathing individuals, I struggled with coming out and staying inside the…