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Learning How to Use They/Them with My Nonbinary Teen

With a whole-hearted attempt at compassion and openness (I hope!)

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A few months after learning that my child, who is nonbinary, uses they/them pronouns, I have been meditating on what the process has been like for me to adjust my language after fifteen years (plus the in utero portion) of referring to them with different pronouns.




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E. Katherine Kottaras

E. Katherine Kottaras

M.A. English// M.S. Kinesiology, Integrative Wellness. Contemplative teacher & writer. 🏳️‍🌈☮️🌴🍕 Chronic pain yields chronic hope.

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